The Bad Dad
I know there has been a lack of posts lately. There are a lot of new developments and I prefer to let them sink in for a while before blabbing some knee jerk reaction. I also have a lot of personal priorities that I have been dealing with lately. One of them is my role as a father. The right mix of stern take no crap and still maintaining a loving relationship with my children.
Recently there has been a lot of discussion about the growing authoritarian nature of the right. A prime example of this is this conversation between Keith Olberman and John Dean.
It occurred to me that the radical right is becoming the mean, unloving, brutal dad that most never want to have or ever want to be.
They condemn those who disagree or fight for the Constitution as treasonous. Just get out of my family!
Did the left ever call the right treasonous under Reagan during Iran Contra when they were selling arms to our enemy Iran? Did they roll out vitriol and hate when we were distracted for years from the peoples business with there obsession with a bj and whatever other minutiae one may want to add? Was the press treasonous for telling bad things about President Clinton and reporting every leak that flowed on an almost daily basis? We had a war and terrorism was happening then, but for the right it wasn't a big enough issue when you have a stain on a dress to talk about. No, the left did not use these tactics. It's the family approach for them. The it takes a village theory. Only the right attempts this mass jettison from society of all their opponents.
Many times on the talk show we would discuss how there apparently were a certain percentage of the population that would hang on to their hate and defeatist policies under any and all circumstances. They could never be brought to the goal of consensus or to consider new ideas. Even old ideas like maintaining the Constitution and balance of powers is poo pooed by the unrelenting authoritarians. They call everyone that disagrees with them Bush haters and say that their thoughts are just because they hate Bush. It has been pointed out multitudes of times that it is the policies that are hated but they won't listen. They call them America haters. They call them Saddam lovers, Al Quedas' best friend and on and on. Mind you this is what they call people in their own family, their fellow Americans. They're the bad dads that turn out children with all kinds of problems and issues. Usually either very angry or overly timid. They invoke more anger and hate. I use to read and comment on a right wing blog. I quit because that is what it was doing to me..making me angry and hateful. Not what I choose to be. Try it for a while and you will see what I mean. If they rule for much longer they won't have to kick me out of the family. I will find a new one. It's not where I want to be..or my country to be. I am proud to be a liberal. Especially when I look at the alternative.
I agree with some conservative principals and could compromise and come to a consensus on others. I understand the need for a strong resolute father but a brutal one destroys himself and his family.